The Great Woman and the Profound Irony
A man enters this world through a woman. For nine months she carries him beneath her heart, brings him into life through pain and sacrifice, nurtures him, teaches him, loves him, and helps shape the person he becomes. He later falls in love with a woman, builds a family with a woman, and relies on women throughout his life. Yet the profound irony remains: why do some men abuse women?
The answer lies in a complex mix of biology, psychology, culture, and power. Society has often taught men to value dominance over empathy and control over understanding. Some grow up viewing a woman's care, sacrifice, and support not as gifts, but as obligations owed to them. When respect is replaced by entitlement, abuse can take root.
Biology may provide physical advantages, but it never excuses violence. The real problem begins when strength is combined with poor emotional control, insecurity, and a desire for dominance. Many abusers have witnessed violence growing up or use aggression to compensate for feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness.
Patriarchal attitudes have also played a role by teaching generations that women exist primarily to serve men. Such beliefs foster entitlement rather than partnership.
The solution begins at home. Boys must be taught emotional intelligence, empathy, accountability, and respect. They should learn that true strength lies not in controlling others, but in controlling themselves. By modelling equality and mutual respect, families can raise men who see women not as possessions or subordinates, but as equal human beings deserving dignity.
A civilised society is measured not by the power men hold, but by the respect they show women.
– Zareer Patell
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